Everybody Isn't Your Friend

       

Wednesday,
1 AM

Hey,

Let's start it with a question...

Is everyone next to you is your friend??

NO...

Everybody ain't your friend just because they're standing next to you. It doesn't mean they want the best for you, just because they smile in your face. 

Doesn't mean they are loyal behind your back.

Understand, real situations expose fake people.

Everybody in the circle might not be in your corner ,people pretend well...Sometimes it's the ones riding with you, that really ain't riding for you.

Sometimes its the ones closest to you that's silently competing with you. just because they're your best friend,doesn't mean they always want the best for you..

listen to me....

Don't confuse the length of the friendship for the strength of the friendship... 

Don't let the history keep you in the misery... just because they grew up with you, Doesn't means they want to see  you grow..

What's the point  of having  people around you that ain't for you....

Because you are real? Because you are loyal?

Be loyal.. but don't let your loyalty become your slavery..

Be loyal to yourself first..

Be loyal to someone who brings your life dreams not drama ....goals not gossips..

Stop being loyal to the wrong people because you can't control someone's loyalty..No matter how good you are for them ,they gonna don't treat you the same...

No matter how much they mean to you, doesn't mean they value you the same.

Sometimes, It's the people you love the most turn out to be the people that you can trust the least..

Fake people will always give you real reasons to cut them off..

I think its time to do some surgery and cut these people out of your life..

If people around you can't see you win, don't want to see best for you, inspire you, motivate you..... then.. 

I'll hate to tell you this but its true.

''You ain't got a circle,you got a cage.''

Sometimes the best way to add to to your life is not to add to it but to subtract from it..

It's rehab time, Let's get it.!!!!!! 

Inescapable Love: An Engima

    Thursday 

   12 AM

   LOVE THE, ENGIMA

      Where do I begin to express you, for you are as old as creation.
    I loose my way trying to understand your unfathomable!
   Deeper I go, I find you dancing in ecstasy that you are!
   With utmost endurance you bear me, when my ignorance stomp        you ruthlessly!!!! 

   That passionate tousle of the affable spring breeze playing my         hair calling out with a gentle reminder that you love me, I run to     find a "safe" shelter! 
 
   Showers of you dretching me with sheer ecstasy, while I open my     umbrella and walk away!!

   Comfort of ignorance masking my awareness, I wrap my mind          with anger!
   Your omnipresence is enthralling, only if one has the power of         sight!!

   Blindfolded by illusions around, I loose my sight.
   Only to come back crashing to grandeur of your abundant love.!

   Sparkling ''chi'' gushing through my spine , I rejoice!!
   I dissolve in you, only to realize that there is no ''I''' or ''YOU''.

   That is LOVE!!!!!

 L, the enigma

Where do i begin to express you, for you are as old as this creation!

I loose my way trying to understand your unfathoma

UnUttered : An Inclination

Sunday

1 AM

Hey,

I'm scared of loving people, and more than that I'm scared of losing them. 
One fine day you meet someone, you build memories with them, you live a life that seems like an eternity with them, and then they leave you or you leave them and you believe that they would remember you. 
You believe that you will always be something that might remain a significant memory to the other person and then reality strikes you. 

Ahhaaa...That feeling— the feeling of being pocket-sized in someone's life that your existence barely matters to them, that feeling of being so into someone but still being easily forgettable no matter how huge or important your history might have been, that feeling of not being remembered the way you should have been, ...that realization of how little they are thinking of you, that feeling chokes you.

Everything can be replaced they say... But That's not acceptable.. 
You can never substitute a feeling by another feeling. 

This lamentableness never leaves your amygdala and somwhere resides in your heart.... You will always remember the experiences that you have with people and those memories will stay until you are graved....

There will be some people whose names will give you chills or butterflies or a little smile on your face everytime you remember them. And then you try to look back and figure out what went wrong, what went so wrong that you are now only a part of their unrecalled past..

And that is the greatest grief....

''The greatest sadness isn't being left, the greatest sadness is being forgotten''

Interrogate Yourself

                         Interrogate Yourself

4th Jan 2018, 

2AM

In the waking state, a lot of our time is spent in questioning. Consciously and unconsciously we are questioning other people’s actions, words, events and sometimes our own fate. Most of the times these questions are born out of misery and persisting with such questions leads to more misery. But the question is, is questioning all that bad? What are those questions that can give us direction & lead us out of misery?

Every time when #SriSri is asked, “What is the purpose of my Life?” HE never gave a direct answer. In fact HE states, Just be with this question. This question itself is a tool to go deeper and rise up above the mundane. But how often do we sincerely ask this question to ourselves?

Would’nt the quality of our life transform if we stop and ask ourselves what do we really want and why we want it? instead of blindly chasing our desires? The goal of every desire is happiness.

At times we are so convinced that the fulfillment of our desires will lead to happiness that we go through an entire lifetime without questioning this basic assumption. Ok, if I get what I want, will it really make me happy? if Yes, for how long? Is it really worth all the feverishness and anxiety?

What is the real worth of all my cravings? What is such a big deal about feelings if they keep on changing all the time?  If this body itself is perishable why so much fuss about physical attraction and desperation to look good? If emotional pain is just a transient sensation why such a hurry to get rid of it? Who am I? Who is the experiencer of all experiences? If death is inevitable how seriously should life be taken? Who is the witness? what is the source of all these thoughts? Is there something that does not change? Why do I get so excited if all the fleeting pleasant feelings which i am running after are just caused by movement of #prana i.e. breath?

These questions play a pivotal role in Challenging basic assumptions and can shake off conditioned living. These questions reconnect us with ourselves.

Instead of questioning and demanding answers from others, its better to direct such fundamental questions to ourselves and stay “Answer “less” 🙂

"You can be a limitless being once you acquaint with your inner higher self which is your real self".

#JGD

                                                                              

                                ~ From the corner of a "Yogi"

Confession : A little Secret

 30 Nov 2018
 6:30PM

A little secret::

Its gonna be a different kind of writting....
Someone so special asked me to write for her love confession in my words ;
& Its always been difficult for me to resist her.!
Hence, I partly penned it with the vow to imprint the whole fable soon..

So,I opted to begin it wondering ,continue with the same & end you with AWESTRUCK.!!😊
(In my words)

''''After being your best friend and telling you all my hopes and desires, I need to tell you what will make me happy.

You have always been there for me through our ups and downs; you've listened to my problems and, most of all, you've put up with me and all the crazy things I do. I love being with you and acting like fools, and I just love everything about you.

You are the best friend I have ever had, but last night when I was trying to go to sleep, I kept thinking about everyone. But then I thought about you, and I couldn't stop thinking about you!
I thought about all the good times we've had together, and I thought about that day we went mudding on the four wheelers, and I realized that it's not the other people I want to be with, it's you. I love you and I want to be with you, forever and a day .
I'm in love with you and have been in love with you since I can't remember when!❤️ ''''


Now, I'm pretty sure that I'm leaving you with bunch of questions in your head but with a promise to answer them all in my next blog.!!✍️✍️

Content credits:: #Ghosh
Thank you @PG.!!❤️

Good Old Days

               

20th November

11PM

I still remember the thrill of running away every time one of us broke a glass while playing cricket. Every single evening the whole complex was buzzing with activity. There was noise, chaos and every inch of space was used to play either the regular or self Invented games.

Injuries were something to be proud of. Fights and arguments were fierce but quickly forgotten. To ultimately resolve an argument there was one sincerely Honest person whom all of us trusted.
He was the big guy and he never lied. All accepted his decision and only after he gave his verdict the game would continue.

Those were days when there was no Internet, no cable tv, no fast food joints, no mobile phones and very few coaching classes. 

Those were days when the building complexes were considered to be a heaven for all resident children. All sorts of games were played, right from Cricket to lagori, from tennis(with a plastic ball and both hands as the racket)to Kanchi (marbles) from football and badminton to langdi and of course cant gorget games like chor police, poison medicine, land and water etc.

5 pm onwards was the official play time. During school days 5 pm was magical time. An hour before one suddenly became extra studios and would be seen with books silently convincing the parents that all is perfect at the academic front. If you were sick that day, at around 5 PM you would start feeling better.

The only way the session would end was with loud Impatient cries of angry parents from their respective balconies or kitchen windows calling us back home.  Back home was some regular nagging, some good food and then we would watch some really classy and fantastic TV serials like “Ye jo hai zindagi”, Nukkad, Hum log etc.]

Nobody hid behind their main doors and plonked themselves in front of their own TV sets. 

I harldy watched a cricket match in my own house. Important cricket matches often resulted into building get togethers. Zindagi was vibrant in every single nukkad and there was a lot of Hum ness between Logs.

Here I would like to introduce you to a rare brand of English language. The English we spoke was a direct translation of Hindi which was a direct translation of marathi. A few examples…
Coming then come fast. What to do re, he is like that only. Then what (instead of “ofcourse”). Morning morning dont eat my head. Gone mad or what. Then what happened you know? Anything haan, Anyways your fathers what goes?(this we never said. but I could not resist the temptation of adding it here.)

Now its for you to figure out the original Hindi or vernacular sentences.

~ @pathak_says

That Inarticulate Love

            That Inarticulate Love

11th November 

2AM 

There is somebody who still waits for you...
Thinks about you all night...
Who is homesick without you...
Who hates being alone...
Who still feels your presence in every breath...
Who recalls every conversation he ever had with you...
Whose moist eyes speak much louder than his words...
About whom his crowd knows that he is falling apart..
Who knows you will never be his past...
Who gets broken seeing you happy with someone else..But him.. seeing you in someone else arms but his.

Who knows you deserve someone much better to treasure your smile...but him..
He's love is unpolarized..
That somebody is ''me''....

The Flirtatious Dusk

3rd November 2018 ::
7PM

The day gracefully departs,
the last ray of sun is just leaving me in flux .
On this Saturday dusk, everything is appearing to merge
Plunging into a void of unknown nature

The timeless night arrives, as if it has never left
The two lovers unite as if never separated

The night is audacious, unapologetic for being so!
Wanders the mind, fearing getting lost in the darkness

Enchanting the self to plunge into its naked vastness
As if playing with your ego, teasingly!

Longing striving to peaks, pushing ego to the valley
The Night awaits, witnessing the whole drama

Ignorant cachaphony masking the call of the night
The Night still awaits..... for eternity!

DISEASE AND ITS FABRICATION

         DISEASE AND ITS FABRICATION

Disease is the body's reaction to harmful food, this is the body's effort to eliminate waste, mucus and toxins that it can no longer cope with. When the body can no longer fight, it turns off the immune system and calls for help to bacteria for which mucus and pus are the best food.

But this is a barbaric way, like amputation with gangrene, when we remove a part to save the rest of the body.

A raw diet or starvation helps the body to be purified in the most beautiful and natural way. Not a disease, but the whole body must be healed! It should be cleaned, freed from unnecessary and alien substances, from mucus and toxins accumulated from childhood.

You can not buy health in a jar of vitamins or medications, you can not heal your body, that is, cleanse your system in just a few days. You must "compensate" the evil done to the body throughout your life.

Raw food is not a cure or medicine, it's regeneration, general cleaning, the acquisition of such pure and beautiful health that you never knew before.

The average person continuously carries around 3 to 5 kg of intractable feces in the intestines, which poison the bloodstream and the entire body.

Stagnation of slag, mucus and toxins is the root of every illness; the largest and most harmful source of reduced vitality, imperfect health, lack of strength and endurance - any and all disease states. And the cause is in the intestine, which has never completely been released, since your birth.

Virtually no one on earth today has a perfectly clean body, and, accordingly, perfectly pure blood. What medicine calls "normal health" is actually a pathological condition.

The human mechanism is an elastic tubular system. The food of civilization is never fully digested, and the remaining waste is not completely removed. The tubular system is slowly clogged, especially in the place of a particular painful symptom and digestive tract. This is the basis of every illness.

Get rid of these impurities, eliminate them wisely and carefully, and manage this operation only by applying a natural raw diet, a healthy lifestyle in general, and starvation.

Better to be a vegetarian.😊

Eat naturally! Be healthy!

Most amusing pick up lines ever😄

    Most Amusing Pick Up Lines

6th June 2018

8PM

Today I decided to share something different & eye catching apart from all orthodoxies.

Let's talk about how to pick up any girl casting your enduring impression. 😉

1.Do you believe in love at first site or I should walk by again.??

2.Do you have map?

Because I'm lost in your eyes.

3. Is your name wifi because I'm feeling connection with you.

4.Do you have a license ??

Because you driving me crazy.

5. You’re so hot , you must have stared global warming

6. Can you tell me quickest direction to your heart.?

7. If heads :I'm yours ;;  If tails : You are mine

8. You are so sweet and sweetness is my weakness.

9. Are you keyboard ??

Because you are of my type.

10. Do you give bank loan bcz I’m taking interest in you.

11. Is your dad terrorist?

because you are bomb

12. Are you a magician?

 Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears!

13. I’m not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together.

14. Do I know you? ‘Cause you look a lot like my next girlfriend/boyfriend.

15. Do you know what my shirt is made of? Boyfriend/girlfriend material?

16. They say Disneyland is the happiest place on earth. Well apparently, no one has ever been standing next to you.

17. For some reason, I was feeling a little off today. But when you came along, you definitely turned me on.

18. Are you religious? Because you’re the answer to all my prayers.

19. I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?

20. Do you have a pencil? Cause I want to erase your past and write our future.

21. Are you a parking ticket? ‘Cause you’ve got fine written all over you.

22. Are you sure you’re not tired? You’ve been running through my mind all day.

23. Is there an airport nearby or is it my heart taking off?

24. Was your dad a boxer? Because damn, you’re a knockout!

25. I was wondering if you had an extra heart. Mine was just stolen.

26. Would you grab my arm, so I can tell my friends I’ve been touched by an angel?

27. There’s only one thing I want to change about you, and that’s your last name.

28.. Aside from being sexy, what do you do for a living?

29.Hi, how was heaven when you left it?

30. Do you believe in love at first sight or should I pass by again?

Whom to trust & Whom not to??

  Whom To Trust & Whom not to?? 

Tuesday

10AM

Title could be eye catching but U barely have any idea what I s'll to talk about, might be tickling your head with no preconceptions.!

I hadn't thought that the situation 'll be critical that I'll hv to wright over it in a nation of #Guru's, mother of spirituality.!🤔🤔
 ""Yesterday I met a group of 100 ppl. to gift them a special AOL's breathing technique #SudarshanKriya.. Talk was exceptionally astonishing & was so judiciously delivered a/c to the current scenario but hands of lads who managed to grasp #SriSri's pic in my phone, chuckled at me.""   It was pointlessly a dragging force for this blog too.

Over thousands of years ,India has led the globe in all aspects of life including #spirituality .In every century we had tons of influential religious & spiritual leaders,bishops.  So ,getting a few stones from tons should be considered as 'obvious'.We feel conveinvent while separating few black stones from tons rather blaming the mosts.
These days(current scenario) folks are balancing each spirituals on same scale; that's really baseless.
We can't put garbage & gold in same balance.
"Need to think specefic rather as a whole"

We homosaps. have enough cranial capacity to segregate such fake "CholaDharies" from creamy ones!
'Whom To Trust' totally depends on
1.how & what we want
2.obviously ,the acuity skills of the individual.
3.Whom you are listening to

Getting lured to someone "CholaDharies" just because he/she astonished you with some immediate bitty miracle, hardly having any fate in long run is the situation where U skip the materiality. Ppl. are being so slack that they are moving towards immediate outputs. That hardly happens & so get trapped.!

Spirituality is a stepwise process. These sudden bitty miracles may reinforce you with momentary illusions but falls short after a while. So, be aware 'Where not to'.

These pocket-sized "CholaDharies" may tarnish the conviction of ppl. but what they can't is the aspiration for spirituality. Rather they're warning ppl. to be more selective. Be more choosy while selecting your #guru"'.!

At last I'll suggest U to "Take a bend towards spirituality but judiciously'


~@pathak_says  😃

Why Terrorism??

                   Why Terrorism??

Monday ;17/07/2017
1:35PM

Hello everyone.! 

Terrorism is often thought of as a plan to kill as many people as possible, lashing out in blind fury against anyone who does not share the extremist beliefs of the terrorist organization. But it isn’t. It’s a strategy of carefully-deployed violence that seeks to advance the goals of the terrorist organizations which choose that path.

1. Capable countries not paying too much heed towards it.!!
There's need to take in congnizence of terrorism consequence keeping aside their self interests. Developed nations taking terrorism as a chance of their buisness weapon deals. #SelfInterests 

2.These sick minded group hepnotise youths in name of Religion, convincing them stating that they will attain Jannat after "Jihaad" 
Misleading them , utilizing their dormant 'Extremineties'among them. #NeedToCurb 

3.Some termites of nations support these extremities in fulfilment of their -ve goals. That's the worst situation for any nation to fight against 'Terrorism'

4.Modern Media Magnifies the Impact 


With the ubiquity of camera-phones, live-streamed footage, recordings and images from the scenes of terrorist attacks are a feature of every major attack. To take just one example, the Berlin truck attack was recorded by a dashcam mounted on a nearby car, to provide footage of the truck speeding into the Christmas market. This amplifies the trauma experienced by the target population.
Terror groups have multiple goals in stressing the target population. 
Firstly, they wish to inflict a sense of helplessness that governments are powerless to stop the attacks, unless they give in to the demands of the terrorists. Terrorists also aim to divide societies, as different factions compete to come up with solutions. We see in Europe and America increased division and hatred between different political groups, with different solutions to the problem of terrorism.

They also have the goal of gaining media attention for their cause. After every attack, news about the terrorists and their goals dominates the headlines, bringing the focus of the world onto who the terrorists are and what they want. This allows them airtime to spread their views. If people are not able to see clearly that the ideology driving the terrorism must be uprooted at the source, they may be inclined to listen to the terrorists’ propaganda.

Terror attacks dominate the headlines allowing the group to get its message out, and magnify differences within the target population creating discord, fear and tension, thus furthering the group’s goals.



5.Some nations latently support terrorism

Terrorism Is Much, Much Cheaper Than Waging War. So,some nations use terrorism for self interests. Provoking terrorists to met their self's. 


We can say"Terrorism has no religion,but why it has no other religion" 

There is urgency to takle this -ve #Terrorism
Really,Need to Join hands to stay against terrorism leaving all self's aside. If it doesn't happen we can't stop #AmarNath "#Paris #London like attacks..

#ComeForwardToFightAgainstTerrorism




Thanks for reading..!!